Saturday, December 19, 2009
Season's greetings!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
update from lynn
thanks to all of you for being such important parts of our lives
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
updates...
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Monday, October 19, 2009
Weekend in Greece
Normally I don’t like to ask people for favors, but I am making an exception this time. We have some friends who have been trying to adopt a baby for a while now. They have hearts of gold and will make phenomenal parents. They have a lead on a potential adoption. I am asking for your prayers for them, the baby and the mother of the baby that everything will work out.
Next up, Suzanne and Joanne come to Italy.
Monday, October 12, 2009
Rain, rain, go away...
Lynn and Claire headed back to Padua after 3-4 hours in Venice so Claire could nap. Lynn said Claire had a meltdown on the train. I stayed in Venice, as the sun came out and I enjoyed a beer overlooking the Grand Canal. By the time I got back to Padua (around 5pm), my clothes were complete dry – it’s amazing what a good beer can do! Saturday night, Claire wouldn’t sleep in her travel cot, so Lynn brought her into our bed. She took up about 50% of the space in the bed, lying sideways. But of course, you don’t wake a sleeping baby, so I made do with my 10%. She was an absolute angel on the four hour bus ride home, playing with several of the girls sitting near us on the bus. On Sunday evening, we got the final grades for our Italian class. There were only 5 students achieving an A+ among the 31 of us taking Italian. Yes, Lynn and I were among those 5.
Some photos of our weekend in Venice and Padua are posted here. Next weekend calls for more rain, this time the setting is Athens, Greece. Stay tuned and stay dry.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Don't you look cute!
The following day we took the hydrofoil from Sorrento to Capri. I visited Capri 6 years ago with my mom and brother and found it pricey then. Not much has changed. We were sitting down in the main plaza for lunch, and as I opened the menu to see 20 Euro appetizers ($30USD) listed, Claire lost it and had a meltdown, prompting us to get up and leave (and look for a cheaper restaurant). We did find one restaurant with a great view of the Mediterranean which we decided on. Claire was asleep in her stroller as Lynn and I shared a bottle of water, a side salad and a 10” pizza. After paying $54USD for our filling lunch, we set out to burn off those expensive calories.
The bus ride back to Montepulciano was nearly 5 hours and Claire was a trooper. The only time she cried was when Lynn passed her to me. I have posted some pictures here of our weekend here. Up next, Mark goes to Hungary.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Como stai?
So, we headed south to Como were the paupers live and spent the late afternoon window shopping. Claire was great this weekend and we think this was her first time on a boat. The weekend ended all too soon as another 6 hour train ride took us back to our 10 week reality called Montepulciano. Here are some photos of the weekend. On Friday, we head south to the Amlfi coast (Naples, Pompeii, Capri) where I intend to spend a glorious afternoon on the isle of Capri soaking up the sun and suds and teaching Claire how to play quarters. Until then…
Monday, September 14, 2009
When in Rome...
Today was another week of daycare. The ladies at daycare say she is adjusting to it and actually enjoys playing, though she cries pretty good when I drop her off and pick her up. Actually, all the kids there do the same thing.
One of joys of living in a small dense city is your neighbors are only feet away. Our neighbor is getting a new roof and the construction workers couldn’t possible make more noise if they tried. This precludes Claire from her afternoon naps. I am not impressed. Claire is an absolute bear when she doesn’t get her afternoon nap.
I also miss having a clothes dryer. We have 2 clothes lines, which we use to dry our laundry. It’s not that bad, but it is 2 stories up. So far we have not dropped anything. I also miss dryer sheets. And a larger washer, as our washer here is tiny. But at least we have a washer, as some students do not. The local Laundromat will wash and dry clothes for 1 Euro per kilogram (2.2 lbs). sounds like a great deal, but then it doesn’t take many clothes to make up 1 kilogram. But they use fabric softener. I also miss good towels. There is nothing quite like using a towel that feels like 40 grit sandpaper. Ok, enough complaining. We are in Italy for heaven sake!
Lynn is doing well. She goes for an ultra sound tomorrow. She is starting to show a little belly – but then I’ve been showing one for years. I posted some pictures from our Rome trip here.
Next weekend we are off to Northern Italy to Lake Como – just the three of us, so it should be a relaxing weekend. Photos to follow!
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Daycare and Tomatoes
Today we went to Florence to visit a museum, the Uffizzi, and Michangelo’s statue, David. At the museum, Claire spent her time running around the corridors, not caring much for the paintings and sculptures - takes after her old man. After lunch we went to see David, an amazing sculpture. She is too young to remember any of this, so I hope one day she can return and see everything again.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
New diggs
A three hour bus ride and we arrived in Montepulciano. Alberto and Heike (our hosts and owners of the school where we are teaching) made sure the three of us were whisked away to our apartment before anyone else. I feared the worst in terms of European apartments, but was pleasantly surprised. Out apartment is absolutely palatial by European terms. A parlor, living room, 2 bedrooms, one bathroom, big kitchen, and most importantly a washing machine (and clothesline outside our second story window). As you know dear reader, from earlier posts, Montepulciano is a very hilly town. Our apartment is near the highest point of the town, which means we walk home uphill. Hopefully I can lose a few pounds in our 10 weeks here. Heike also arranged for a crib for Claire, so we didn’t have to take the pack and play with us. We put Claire down at 6pm and she slept until noon the following day. She was a tired.
Yesterday I went on a tour of the city with the students and ended up at the cell phone store. I got a sim card for Lynn, so you can call her at: Remember we are 6 hours ahead of east coast time. I also went grocery shopping, which was an adventure. Did you know the SKU for bananas (4011) is the same here as it is back home? Anyway I went with a male student and I spent 48 euros on food for the 3 of us. He spent 28 euros on beer, tonic water, Tylenol and toilet paper. Those were the days! Last night we went to dinner with the group at Alberto’s restaurant and Claire gave Alberto a bottle of scotch she picked up at the duty free in Frankfurt. He was very appreciative. And Claire’s stroller was at the restaurant when we arrived for dinner. Things are falling into place.
This weekend is the town’s annual festival of barrel racing, in which each neighborhood pits its team of barrel rollers against the others. I can hear the drums and the church bells right now, summoning people to the piazza grande (main square). The festivities start at noon. I hope Claire is up by then, so she can see this event that she will not remember when she is older.
Lynn is feeling ok, but is tired – she claims my snoring keeps her up, but I know I don’t snore. School starts tomorrow. Italian 1001 at 8:30am every morning! Lynn is teaching Monday afternoons and I teach Tuesday and Thursday afternoons. Claire will start daycare next week.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
On the road again...
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Colombia Cutie
For the weekend we (the four of us and our friends Rudolf, Rose and their child Sergio) drove to a finca (a hotel in the countryside). I should mention that getting to the finca involved driving up the Andes mountains and then down the mountains (about 7 hours) and then another 3-4 hours. Yes, we drove almost 11 hours (one way) to get to the freaking finca.
But the finca was beautiful, complete with a swimming pool. We spent our one full day visiting an amusement park and then drinking beer at the pool in the evening. Claire couldn't go on the rides, but we did take her on a train ride, which featured a band on one of the cars. You can see Claire dancing in the video.
After a long drive back to Bogota and a short sleep (5 hours) we were off to the airport to return home. We got in line to check-in and before they issued boarding passes (but after they took our lugguage), we had to get in-line to have our passports stamped with the tax-exemption stamp. Next it was another line to pay the tax we were just exempted from. Back to the ticket counter to get our boarding passes... next to the immigration line, which was about 45 minutes long, but we used the baby card and walked to the front of the line with Claire. After immigration we got in line for security (X-ray machine), then into another line to have our carry-on inspected. After duty-free it was another line to have our carry-on inspected again, followed by another line to get into the gate area, followed by another line to have our carry-on inspected for a third time. Lastly, we got in line to board the plane. This time Lynn, Nancy, Claire and I all sat in first class. Betsy was in the back of the plane.
We got home in time for me to go play hockey at 10pm. It was the championship game, which we won 6-2. An incredibly long day, with a great finish. Now we have to get ready for going to Italy next week. Away, enjoy the video and some photos posted here.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Futbol
Friday, July 31, 2009
Wonderful Week
Now that a bunch of her teeth came in last week (4 molars!), she is doing much better. She still is a momma's girl though, preferring mom over anyone else - just try and pick her up when mom is present. Today we flew to Syracuse via JFK and Claire was awesome on the flight, sitting (and sleeping) in mom's lap. She also has learned to climb up on the sofa. She is growing up so quick. Tonight, uncle Larry is over and we are watching Finding Nemo for the millionth time, while mom tries to clip the bear's toe nails - good times.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Beach baby? Not!
Anyway, last year when we were here, Claire couldn’t even roll over. Now she is running and dancing everywhere. Except for the beach!!! For whatever reason she is scared of the sand. She cries when she gets sand on her hands and looks to Lynn to clean them for her. We got some photos to prove it.
Claire got to meet her newest cousin Brennan (Mark and Erin’s newest addition) who is 7 months old. Claire exclaimed “Baby!” when she first saw Brennan. Overall Claire is the center of addition and loving it here. We will continue to work on the sand thing.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Dancing Bear
Monday, July 13, 2009
Good times in Canada
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Rhode Island Weekend
Friday, June 19, 2009
Doctors and Dancing
We are busy reading books to Claire everyday. Usually the same 8 or 9 books. So if you feel like sending us a new book to read. please do so - just not Goodnight Moon. Anyway, below are a couple of videos, showing our first dance with Claire, which will no doubt be a hit at her wedding in 30 some odd years from now.
Dances with Dad
Dances with Mom
Sunday, June 7, 2009
New Parenting Technique
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Pool time
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Welcome Maria Jesus Marin Ibanez
Monday, May 25, 2009
Calm weekend
In preparation for Paul and Taya's wedding, we had Claire outside today in a wifebeater t-shirt to try to get rid of her farmer's tan. It's pretty evident, but hopefully a couple of days in the sun and she will darken right up. She is 1/4 Filipino after all.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Closing thoughts on Italy
- Claire's eyes are turning light green from blue. Must be from all the veggies she eats.
- One of the workers at the hotel we stayed at thought Claire was adopted since she "looks Asian". The worker was Filipino.
- One of the guests at the hotel said, "there is no doubt she is your (my) daughter, she looks just like you." She was drinking wine at the time (not Claire, but the guest).
- We arranged daycare for Claire in the fall 8:30am to 4:30pm Monday through Thursday.
- She is back to being an absolute angel. We are reconsidering our self-imposed ban on foreign travel with her.
- I love this child so much.
We're home!
Our day back started out great - though we were down to 2 diapers. Lynn bought 22 diapers and some wipes at the airport for 13 euros ($17.55 US). The plane was packed, but we were fortunate that most of the people who sat near us on the plane were either, incredibly understanding because they have kids of their own, or were wearing noise cancelling headphones. Claire watched Finding Nemo about 3 times (all without sound, as she wouldn't keep the headphones on) and would regularly kiss the monitor. She got cranky a few times (gets this from her mom), but her ears really bothered her when we were descending into Atlanta - first time that has happened - a few sucks on her bottle and she was fine.
Anyway, she went to bed at 6:30pm last night and is still down (it's 6:30am right now). Last night at 10pm, I had a hockey game - the championship game no less, but I was just too tired to make it. I found out ths morning that we won in double overtime - darn, I wish I went! Anyway I am rambling because I am tired. A final recap of our week long adventure, next posting.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Montepulciano
Tomorrow we take the train back to Rome and fly home on Tuesday... just in time for Claire to get adjusted to the time zone here. More photos are posted here.
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Ciao bebe
Oh, and thank you to everyone who offered to wire us money and help us out of our money predicament. We found an ATM that was willing to give us some money, despite of the fact our ATM cards had expired!
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Buongiorno!
I think Claire only slept for 3-4 hours on the flight to Rome. I got in about 6 hours and not sure about Lynn (too afraid to ask). We spent about an hour at the airport looking for an ATM to get some euros, but couldn't find one. We got to our hotel and the three of us took a 3-4 hour nap. We continued our quest to find a working ATM, and visited the Colosseum and Forum along the way. A funny thing happened on our way to the forum, we realized that both our ATM cards had expired - Lynn's in Feb and mine in April, and while they both still worked in Atlanta, they didn't in Rome. No wonder we couldn't get any money out. We called our credit union, who turned out to be even more useless than usual. Lynn about had an ATM card from HSBC, but she couldn't remember the PIN and after 5 or 6 tries, the ATM took her card. So, we got about $23 US between us and will be looking for things to do that are free or take credit cards. We'll figure stuff out in the morning when we are not so tired. And i'll post pictures from our outing.
Buona notte
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Happy Mother's Day
On Tuesday, Claire makes her first international trip. We are heading to Italy for 5 days for work. It's a long way to go for only 5 days. I hope she sleeps on the plane. So this will be my excuse for not posting next week.
Friday, May 1, 2009
Walking and talking
She is starting to grow taller and her hair is getting a little curl. She is blowing kisses. We are truly blessed to have this little angel for our daughter. Anyway, it has been a while since I have posted new photos, so here are some.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Video updates
As some of you may know, when we leave the house, Kayla knocks her bowl over, scattering her food everywhere. It's a pain to find dog food all over the kitchen floor. Now we have a Claire 2000 model to take care of our problem.
Here she is in action. Walking everywhere. No wonder I am tired by the end of the day.
Monday, April 20, 2009
talking and walking
Today she wanted to Skype with someone, anyone. Around noon, we couldn't find anyone one skype. She was visibly upset. But you should see her reaction when she hears this. She immediately stops whatever she is doing and makes a beeline for the computer.
We decided to take Claire with us when we go to Italy in May. Initially we were a little apprehensive about having her sit in our lap(s) for 10 hours on the flight, but then we figure she is such an easy, happy and carefree baby, that the other passengers around us won't mind. Plus we save about $700 not having to buy her a ticket. It will be a dry-run for our trip to Rome in August, when in addition to the bear, we'll have 30 other babies (students) to look after as well.
Thursday, April 16, 2009
the little mimic
claire just cracks me up. today at lunch, i was feeding her some hot mac-n-cheese. of course, being the good mother i am, i blew up on it first to cool it down. well, that just made claire howl with laughter. tonight at dinner, i was feeding her some peaches from a spoon (slippery little suckers!) and she blew on them first. what a riot.
claire is now the walking queen. she is fairly steady on her feet and will walk quite a ways before looking for something to grab onto.
two new teeth are coming in on the top, but she still looks like a bit of a snaggletooth with only one front tooth showing (she'll really appreciate that comment in 12 years when she reads this - love you, bear!).
will try and get some pics this weekend of her marching around outside and having a ball.
until then, walk steady.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Easter Pictures and Video
Claire and I started the day with pancakes and bacon for breakfast. I am astounded by the amount she eats. After lunch we had an Easter egg hunt on the front lawn. Granted the eggs weren't all that well hidden and the grass posed difficulties for Claire to walk. Of course, a few of the neighbors came out to see Claire in her Easter dress (second video below).
After a quick nap (both Claire and dad), we headed over to the Samson's for ham, mashed potatoes, etc. Claire ate more than the two boys (Zack 8 and Alex 5). While Jason Rich (Dallas, TX) is sure his son Benjamin will be Claire's husband, Wendell (next door neighbor) is sure Alex will be Claire's husband. This will be interesting!
Anyway, you can see more pics here!
Walking around
Easter egg hunt
a mother's love
i suppose this year, i was affected more deeply by mama bird than i may have been in the past. this mama bird would do ANYTHING for the safety of her babies. we are all the same, you know. all of god's creatures have a special bond between mother and child. now that i am a mother, i too would do anything for the safety of claire. i hope that if i am ever in a similar situation, someone unexpected would secure her safety.
until next posting, show some kindness and love for all god's creatures on this day (easter) and every day. you never know when might need it back.
lynn
p.s. easter pics are coming. mark is going to put them up later today.
Monday, April 6, 2009
What a great baby!
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
These boots were made for walking...
Claire is walking up to 7-8 steps unaided. She is really working on her balance. She has a new favorite thing to do, open the cardboards and empty them of their contents. Of course, the lack of baby proofing in our house hasn't helped matters. Atleast we have locks on the liquor cupboard and the kitchen sink cupboard.
In terms of eating, Auntie Kim would be proud. Claire doesn't like tomatoes. In fact, she throws them on the floor... along with everything else when Kayla is around. She gets a big kick out of it.
Tomorrow, Grammy and grampy are coming to visit for a few days, on their northern migration back home for the summer.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
911 Operator...
Anyway, tooth #3 is well on its way out, her mullet continues to grow, and walking is only days away. I am back in Las Vegas this weekend for a conference and boys weekend. Hopefully, I can add to Claire's college fund. Until next week (when I am not paying for the Internet), baby needs a new pair of shoes!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Guess who's starting to walk...
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Big Girls Don't Cry
we (okay, i - because mark is away at paul's stag party in vegas) finally got her back on her nap schedule today. claire was having such a great week with visitors (larry, charlene, kimmy, and jocelyn) that she didn't want to miss anything. hopefully the schedule will stick.
claire is still exhibiting some separation anxiety/stranger shyness when i am around. if i walk past her and don't pick her up, she cries. if someone else picks her up and i am there, she cries. while i am flattered, and of course, glad she is capable of forming bonds, i am hoping that this is a relatively short-lived phase.
otherwise, we are well and looking forward to mark's return. we hope he and uncle paul (and the rest of the boys) are having fun in vegas.
until the next posting, double down.
- lynn
Friday, March 13, 2009
Who needs a nap?
On another front, I am sure Claire is only days away from taking her first steps - walking! She is routinely standing on her own, without holding on to anything. I just hope her first steps don't happen this weekend.
Until the next posting, try to get a nap in.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Lordy, Lordy, Guess who turned 1 (and 40)
Yesterday was also our neighbor Sandy's birthday, albeit not her first birthday, nor her 39th either ;). Today we had lunch with the Tinsley's to celebrate both birthdays. Claire and Sandy were so well behaved. Anyway, below is the video of Claire destroying her cupcake and photos of her first birthday can be found here. Enjoy!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Goodbye Dear Friend
Our decision was easy to make as it was clear Caesar was struggling. It was far more difficult and emotional to carry out our decision. The night before, we gave him a bath and spent time with him holding and petting him. The drive to the vet was 5 minutes, but I am not sure if it took 5 minutes or 50 minutes. The people at the vet were great. Lynn was able to hold him in her lap as he took his last breaths. After it was over, te vet kindly gave us a few final moments with Caesar…
Thank you everyone for your kind notes and words. Here are some pictures of our small brown dog.
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Lola's here!!!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Don't cry over it...
This morning was bittersweet for Lynn (and me) because it was the last time she would breast feed Claire. Lynn said she would do it for one year. Next Friday (March 6), Claire turns 1. We still have bags of breast milk in the freezer, but once those are gone, that's it. Claire made the transition to whole milk without any problems. She continues to eat and gain a little a bit of weight - my weight gain is from beer.
I find it a little hard to admit she is almost one year old. The year has gone by so fast. Yet, on ther other hand, I can't imagine/remember what life (read: sleep) was like before her. When I turned 30, I had 4 big life events, namely, finishing my Ph.D., getting married, starting a new job, and buying a house. Now that I am 40, I change diapers - wouldn't trade it for anything (haha, already got my TV).
Last week, Lynn took Claire to the zoo, with Vanessa (a colleague) and her son, Luke. While I was not able to join them, Lynn said Claire laughed and laughed at the meerkats and thought they were so funny. That's one thing I love about her, she laughs everyday.
Another significant change is she is starting to show signs of separation anxiety. When we leave the room and she sees us leave, some times she cries. I guess this is normal at this stage, but it gets old quickly.
Anyway, we are planning an afternoon at the park tomorrow, and I hope to have photos to share with you. So, until then, there is no use crying over it.
Monday, February 16, 2009
I'm back
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
A week in the life...
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Friends visiting
Monday, January 19, 2009
At the beach
Sunday, January 18, 2009
it's been awhile...
Yesterday, we flew to Sarasota, FL to visit grammy and grampy. Claire did ok, considering we sat on the tarmac for an hour, waiting for lugguage to be loaded. And of course, I had to change her diaper once we reached cruising altitude. The only flat surface was the toilet seat lid, on which I was able to get about half of Claire. She is still adjusting to her new surroundings in Sarasota, and as such, does not want to go to sleep - lest she should miss something. It has not been fun for her parents, when she cries and cries when you put her down for a nap. We go home on Tuesday morning.
She has started this new thing of trying to turn/roll over when you are trying to dress her or change her diaper. Sometimes it will take 2 of us to dress her. I hope this is a phase, or she'll end up wearing PJs and a dirty diaper all day. She is getting stronger everyday.
As I mentioned in the first paragraph, I have been traveling again. I consider myself to be a relatively experienced traveler, but I made the rookie mistake last week of forgeting my camera and other electronic goodies at home. I went to Nicaragua and was unable to Skype with Claire. I was able to see Claire on skype, but couldn't interact with her. I won't be making that mistake again.
Sorry to report I don't have any new pictures to post, but I am sure over the course of the weekend we will take some.
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
teefies
will post pics when you can actually see them.
until then, keep your floss handy...
Friday, January 2, 2009
Happy New Year!!!
Amazingly, Claire was pretty good on January 1, considering she was sick and her sleeping pattern was out of wack. We took her over to Kelli and Wendell's (next door neighbors) for a wonderful lunch, followed by hockey and football on TV. It was cute watching the boys next door (Zach, 7 and Alex, 5) "look after" Claire. They would put their arm around her as she sat on the floor and would crawl with her as she moved around the livingroom. Of course Wendell, is certain that Claire will end up as his daughter in law. He'll have to wait until she is at least 30.
Today, Claire is still sick, coughing, runny nose, whiny, tired. Hopefully she will sleep today and wake up feeling better.
I am going back to work on Monday. I haven't worked since April 25. That's 8 months. Well, looking after Claire is not what I consider work. Lynn teaches on Mondays and Wednesdays, and I teach on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so we won't need to put Claire in daycare. But it does mean that we will each have to squeeze an entire workweek into 2 days. And we are picking our travel schedule.
Our road to parenthood has been a wonderful adventure this past year. Thanks for joining us along our travels. I hope you, dear reader, will join us this year and see where the road takes us.